Woah Hello June and Hello WordPress

Well it has officially been an entire year since I have posted anything on my blog. I kind of went ghost without telling anyone or maybe I did but can’t really remember if I did or not. And if you’re wondering if I’m going to apologize like most people do when they take time out of their life to get their life together well unfortunately nope I will not be, no offense. The reason why I took a break from WordPress was for multiple reasons 1) I have a full time job working 40+ hours a week 2) I was having relationship/friendship problems I needed to work on 3) Although I had plenty to talk about with all of you I didn’t want to post any of it due to the fact I wasn’t in the right mind to really share everything with the public again and 4) the updates that WordPress keeps having makes it harder for me to use when I have to do certain things on the website as opposed to right there in the app like I was able to do so many times.

But here I am giving you guys a semi update on why I have been MIA. Now you might be asking since I’ve come out of hiding will I be blogging more and honestly the answer is probably not. There might be days where I will feel like sharing something important with all of you but as of now I’m not whole heartedly focused on blogging anymore even though I am still writing I’m just not sharing my words on my blog. From time to time you might see me repost something old from myself or something new from someone else. It’s funny though that ever since I took a break from blogging I’ve been getting emails asking me to write about certain topics. I guess what they say is right “if you stop searching for what you want, what you want will search for you” or something along those lines.

I just wanted to share this little post and maybe when I don’t have a severe headache and I’m feeling up to it I will do a full on year update about everything that had happened in my life including my current love life situation, believe me it’s great.

until then lovely people,

Bre James

This Time Around, I’m Done With You — Thought Catalog

Meiying NgThis year I’m done with you. I’m done sitting around waiting for you to realise that I was always there by your side whenever you needed me. I’m done being available to you anytime you called or texted. I’m done waiting for you to realise that I was worth it, that I was worth…

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10 Ways You’re Blocking Love From Your Life (Without Even Noticing That You Are) — Thought Catalog

@batoshka1. You get defensive every time you like someone. Because you’re guarded or you don’t want to get hurt so your body enters into defensive mode blocking you from being approachable, soft or vulnerable. 2. You think everyone is like your ex. You think everyone is going to treat you the way your ex treated…

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Do Yourself A Favor And Finally Move On — Thought Catalog

I’m PriscillaI am still always thinking about you. It’s funny that despite the countless times you made me feel I wasn’t worth it, I could never be good enough, and everything was my fault, I can only remember the good stuffs. Come to think of it, this is the case, since right from this very…

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 16 Signs You’re In Denial About How Toxic He Is — Thought Catalog

Jesse Herzog1. Whenever you get mad at him, you tell yourself that you’re overreacting. That you’re the crazy one. That you need to tone your emotions down if you want to keep him around. 2. You make excuses for him. Whenever he screws up, you find a way to justify the hurtful things that he did. He…

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If You Want To Get Your Year On Track Right Now, Do These 7 Simple Things — Thought Catalog

Jonas Verstuyft1. Start completely fresh. There’s no reason for you to hang onto the negative things that happened yesterday, or feel defeated because you ate terribly the first day of the New Year. What’s in the past is exactly that—the past. Today is a new day, so start completely fresh. Tell yourself that your goals,…

via If You Want To Get Your Year On Track Right Now, Do These 7 Simple Things — Thought Catalog

 21 Little Truths To Remember When You’re Starting Over — Thought Catalog

I’m Priscilla1. Growing up doesn’t happen all at once. Being persistent in trying is half the battle won. 2. Loneliness can feel a lot like love in the middle of the night. Any text intended to be sent past 2AM can wait until the next day. If your feelings are true, they will still be…

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To My Toxic Half, I’m Going To Say Goodbye And Not Look Back This Time

Edric Goodbye. It seemed like a foreign word to people like us. The people who always found a way back to each other. I wanted us to make it. I wanted to believe everything you said. I didn’t want it all to be a lie. I’m stubborn. I didn’t want them to be right about…

via To My Toxic Half, I’m Going To Say Goodbye And Not Look Back This Time — Thought Catalog

16 Signs You’re In Denial About How Toxic He Is 

Jesse Herzog1. Whenever you get mad at him, you tell yourself that you’re overreacting. That you’re the crazy one. That you need to tone your emotions down if you want to keep him around. 2. You make excuses for him. Whenever he screws up, you find a way to justify the hurtful things that he did. He…

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The Wrong Type Of Guy You Fall For (And Should Stay Away From) Based On Your Zodiac Sign 

@batoshkaAries (March 21st to April 19th) You are a ball of energy and you’re full of passion. You love to flirt and you love a guy who will flirt back just as strongly. The same excitement and passion you crave in your daily life you also crave in your love life. This often leads you…

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